Mistress Amber St Clare of Sussex

After a cold winter, I’m looking forward to spring and a brand new spanking season.  If you’ve been naughty (or if you just want to treat yourself) it’s time to book yourself a session with me.  Maybe there’s something you’ve always wanted to try, such a foot worship or bondage, role play or face slapping.  Now is the time to set your fantasy free.

Everyone’s fantasy is unique and I can make them come true.  Stockings, high heels, strict headmistress or boss, I enjoy many roles.  I particularly like foot worship with my feet encased in nylon stockings, so don’t be shy if this is something you’ve always wanted to try.  However, if your interest is focused on corporal punishment, I’m more than happy to oblige 🙂

I’m often approached by newcomers, who ask if lack of experience is important, so I thought I would set down a few thoughts on the subject.  FIrstly, doesn’t matter if you are inexperienced – what matters more is a willingness to learn.  A respectful attitude is all that’s needed to begin with – the rest can be taught.

There is no need for nervousness – whilst you will be asked to relinquish control, this won’t be until your limits and expectations have been discussed.  When it comes to newbies, my policy is to take things slowly – to build up sensation and intensity.

A new submissive is like a piece of clay, malleable and ready to be shaped as I wish, and I enjoy the experience of initiation.

I’m back now from a well deserved holiday in Sicilly.  Whilst I do enjoy a break, it’s always nice to return to something I enjoy greatly.  I’m looking forward to seeing my regular clients, together with hopefully a few new bottoms to thrash 🙂

Those who know me would probably agree that I am a sadist – that is to say I get pleasure from inflicting pain on others.  Whilst I would be the first to agree with this, it’s also true that I get a great deal of satisfaction from the less severe session.  I love administering a heavy caning, but it also pleases me to make a submissive suffer in other less painful ways.  Tie and tease is a firm favourite of mine – to restrain and bring a submissive to the brink again and again till he begs for mercy always pleases me enormously.  I think it is the sheer helplessness of the (willing) victim, who has no choice but to be teased beyond endurance, then denied release (unless I am feeling very generous) again and again, that is so appealing to me.

Similarly, a long slow spanking has a lot of appeal for me.  The contact of my hand on a bare bottom is always enjoyable, whether it progresses on to a caning or not.  A beating doesn’t always have to be hard or unmerciful (although it is fun for me if it is), but can be enjoyed for the sensual aspects alone.  The humiliation of being bent over my knee, the slap of my hand on bare flesh, his discomfort all contribute to the experience.  I can get as much satisfaction from this as from giving a severe caning.

The move went smoothly (as smoothly as uprooting yourself can ever be) and I’m now settled into my new place.  I’m now much closer to the centre of Eastbourne but still in a nice secluded area.  So far, I’m really enjoying the new house, despite the boxes in the garage which haven’t yet been unpacked. I’m just grateful to have a garage as so many of the places I looked at didn’t have one.

I’m ready now to get back to normal, and my hand is already twitching in anticipation of administering a good thrashing 🙂

It’s been a while since I’ve been asked to administer a really severe beating.  Whilst I am more than happy to discipline those whose needs fall into the light to moderate category, I really do enjoy being able to let myself go. To have a submissive strapped down either on my horse or across the bed, and not stop until I am forced to give in to exhaustion is a joy.  I have given judicial punishments from cold, but for me, the real fun is when I can start slowly with a flogger or nursery cane and build up intensity.  I like to use all of my “toys” from the light flogger, up to the dragon canes and even my single tail on occasion. A session of this kind can last up to two hours or more and leave both client and myself in a state of exaltation.

The world needs serious masochists to keep a sadist like myself satisfied.

Every now and then I have the pleasure of dealing with a real masochist, and I can give my sadistic side full reign.  Yesterday I was fortunate enough to have a visitor who could take whatever I cared to dish out, and then take a bit more. We started off with some spanking.  It always pleases me when I see a bottom obviously enjoying every slap, and arching up to meet my hand for the next one. I soon abandoned the hand spanking for the more satisfying paddle.  I have a lovely paddle made from the same rubber as a plimsole. Very satisfying to administer.

This was followed by a long caning session, during which I used nearly all of the canes, one after the other. I love to see the marks appearing, beautifully laid out in tram lines across a willing arse. To finish, I used my spanking horse which has the advantage that I can restrain the lucky individual over it, so there is not a chance of his escaping the last two dozen or so strokes 🙂

All in all, a very satisfying session, which I hope to repeat in the not too distant future.